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Be a mother and you would know... !!!???

Hello friends,

We, all at one of time, definitely heard, " You would not understand me!", "Once you become a mother, you would know her plight", " It is not easy to become a parent", " We did so much for you all life, what you know?", Etc ...

These phrases, must have been heard by many from our parents or elders.

I do not deny the beautiful fact that, we cannot be grateful enough for what our mothers did for us, by giving us birth (and for that matter Father's, who selflessly work for our better futures)

Women are emotional and have sensitive side. Mom's are our emotional strengths and bundle of warmth of love

However, I would judiciously put forth my idea of Being Mother or anyone becoming a Parent....

Mother, Father, Child, Siblings, aunt, uncle, teacher, student, etc are roles defined either naturally or by law or by choice or by  compulsion.

The main essence to be understood is, the Tatva (The values), the Hood (As in Motherhood, Parenthood, etc).

Transpiring of Values, while behaving in any relation is the most important factor. Not all mothers or fathers' or children are good. They are evaluated by the Conduct and values being expressed. 

Hence it is only a Egoistic And Tall claim, if one says, " You become so and so and you would know how tough it is"

Children are constantly judging and observing behaviours of people around them.
Since they are an empty slate and pure & raw in this world, they immediately understand conflicts, Duality in thought, behaviour and talks.
I am no where hurt by any dealings, but I am fortunate enough to understand the Adulteration in talk and behaviour. 
It is never necessary to become a mother to be able to express love, selflessness, care, equality, sharing, etc... 

It is always important to understand the essence of motherhood, to learn the true meaning of Love, Care, Unconditional & unbiased approach, forgiveness, Big Hearted, Empathy, etc.

Do you all agree to this concept of Understanding Value system than being in a certain role or position, while behaving with each other?

I adore all mothers, who carried a life in her womb, nurtured it. But, today's mothers are seen to reproduce as a result of some mere physical affinity only, vested interests that their children will be handy in their old age, or as a compulsion to have children after marriage, etc... 

I think the thought to be able to give Life, be grateful for that little child to give the opportunity to make her a Mother, be responsible for contribution to the journey of a different soul; itself is so beautiful and forgotten today by many...

Reproduction is part of a female to be able to give back to the Nature, but stressful and selfish interests makes her ungrateful and overpowering her child to complete her dreams or incomplete desires.

Think about this side of coin.... You do not require to be a Mother but remain in Motherhood, be a teacher but remain as a knowledge giver, etc...

Hope you guys liked this post...
I thank and salute Motherhood and it's wonderful Values attached to it...

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