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Relationships hacks...

Hello Friends,

We are humans. We have to deal with each other always.
The dealing or behavioural conduct transpired between humans is relationship to me.
Parents, children, sibblings, teacher, student, aunts, uncles, etc are roles defined by us to address someone in the relationship.

Main hacks to have a successful relationship -


🤝 Understanding the Importance of existence with Co-existence

🤝 Humans are superior to all creations, due to its developed brain. Utilise it rationally

🤝 Emotional Intelligence is the key to correct behaviour

🤝 Living with value system

🤝 Evaluation of human behaviour is done through this developed Value system

🤝 Dealings and any behavioural exchange should be done fairly with full justice to self and others

🤝 Accept likes and dislikes of a person

🤝 Acceptance of the other person as it is

🤝 Constant communication and transparent exchange of thoughts, helps us be connected in true sense

🤝 Frank and straight forward approach affirms you and others about your belief

🤝 Be gracious enough to accept mistakes and try not to repeat. This leads to "Taken for Granted approach", which is not appreciated

🤝 Be assertive with your correct thinking

🤝 Daily and true Self Introspection keeps you in check

🤝 Best is when humans unite with common life goal

🤝 Be expressive, but not over emotional

🤝 Be empathetic, but not sulking with sympathy

🤝 Every individual has some speciality or some unique qualities. Always be appreciative

🤝 Don't be complainant about negatives of a person constantly. Every one is in a journey. Try to help out if possible or pray

🤝 Letting go off rigid and unwarranted habits. Be pragmatic always

🤝 Listen always. People need to be listened too at times.

🤝 Do not be idealistic, practical, diplomatic, self centred.

🤝 To err is human. So try to accept that too

🤝 Pressurising is not accepted by anyone. So talk out and find an amicable way

🤝 Everyone aspires for peace, happiness. Understand this and life is good to go

🤝 Have Universality in behaviour.

🤝 Verbal and Physical abuses should be avoided

🤝 Not everyday is a sunny day, so take some rest

🤝 Emotions automatically come in, while dealing within humans. It is important that we intentionally or unintentionally do not overpower our likes and dislikes on others.

🤝 Understanding realities of life, Nature, resources, helps us be grounded and face the Truth

I have learnt and tried these hacks in my life. I would not give tall claims that it was a ' Maska Ride'  for me so far. However, these hacks have helped me gain Respect, Confidence, Faith, Warmth and Acceptance. 

I have made many small.kistakes, grave blunders in life, but constant self Introspection has kept on check, and scope to improve always...

Hope I could cover major points to churn out thoughts and actions towards Healthy Relationship. I would like your life hacks in the comment section, which could help me grow too...

Thank you for being patiently with me ...

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