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A small word or gesture is A Big thing for parents!!!

 Hello Friends, Hope you had a great Vantine's day and enjoyed my previous blog on the same... The link to my previous post is  Https://thealternativeliving.blogspot.com/2021/02/hey-its-valentines-day-love-know-and.html The wonderful souls to make a miracle happen to another soul by giving birth in this beautiful world, are no doubt given the Place of God.... The souls named Parents here...♥️🙏🙏♥️ Imagine going through the wonderful experience of Parenthood, Raising a part of them to a full grown human, must be exciting, anxious, fearful, yet wonderful phase of Parents. A mere Smile, a Hug, a kind word, a first calling Dad, mom, paa, Maa, A first Crawl, A small step to a walk, a First run, A sharing, a sweet gesture fromtheir child /children must a Big Deal for parents. (While Writing this line, I am literally getting Goosebumps) We may say that parents needed a child of own flesh, a child for their Old age support or maybe since parents gave birth to child, whatever they do ...

Hey its Valentine's Day!!!! Love - know and enjoy!!!

 Hello Dearies, A very Happy Valentine's day to each one of you... Hope you and your loved ones are doing good and are being loved and giving love to others too!!!! Love is the blissful experience of the Truth. It is the fact, feeling, emotion and air to Life For whatever reason this Valentine's Day came into existence, I am happy to celebrate this more specially with my loved ones. Things I correlate Valentine's Day or Love are :- 💛 Gratitude towards the whole Cosmos, 💛 Gratitude to my Existence 💛 Feeling of pride and respect for my Parents, for their decision to bring me to this world to achieve my Completeness 💛 Immense love for my family to be able to accept my in their world and nurturing me to a good human being  💛 A silent prayer to include each and every particle in this space to be witnessing me and being my co-partners to my growth  💛 A Me-time to experience my own Self, Nature around and the intellect to explore the layers of knowledge within  💛 Enj...

Taking for Granted or Taken for Granted.. is it good???

Hello Friends, I hope you all are doing great in your life and staying Safe & Healthy... You must have definitely someday been taken for granted or you being taking yourself / other people for Granted... What do you actually mean by 'taking / taken for Granted' ??? Every person is unique.  Every Person has unique Personality Every person has his / her own Plus n Minus in qualities  Every person has Self worth / Self Esteem Many persons are understanding and think of other's happiness, but sometimes compromise with own Self Esteem. So, either that person is taken for granted or we say the other person takes him for granted. That is, not bothered about other person's comfort, desires, expectations or worthiness. Actually, till the existence of this body, Self Ego persists to some extent or larger extents . Hence according to me, Self ego / Esteem seems to be in Real, but is a big myth, till you are in this body.  Every soul is void of self ego or esteem. The soul are ...

Stereotype relationships exist and are they same in all millennium

 Hi all, Husband - Wife, Mother - Son, Father - Daughter, Mom in laws - Daughter in law / Son - in-law, Grandparents - Grandchildren, Father - Child / Mother - Child are some of the relationships that we see.  Tell me frankly, has some equations of above relationships changed over decades?! Like, we hear Bollywood dialogues or real life comments ---, Saas toh bahut danger hoti hai, Bahu toh Ghar mein aag lagaati hai, Maa kaa favorite child Beta hota hai, Daughters are always special to dads, Bahu kabhi beti nahi ban sakti, Shaadi ke baad pati-patni mein jhagde zyaada hote hai, Shaadi ke baadd power patni ke paas hi hota hai, etc etc... Funny and you must be wondering am I mad to think about such topic in today's times... Yes, I find a lot of stero typical approaches in various relationships. The mind set has to change... To larger extend the equations in the relationships of jnlaws - daughternin law / son jn law, father - daughter, husband - wife has changed for the better. I ...

Self esteem and Self Ego...

 Dear all, OMG !!! I did so much for all, but no one respects me? I can never be Wrong!! What Mistake have I done?! No one understands me?! I am always right and wise !!!  These are some common sentences we may be using routinely in our lives 😀 I, Me, Myself are words used for Self... The topic today reminds me of a famous Bollywood dialogue:- Yeh Mera Abhimaan Nahi Swabhimaan hai ... (Translation : It's not about my Ego, but about my Self Esteem) It's interesting that there is a very fine line between these two strong Emotions of Egoism and Being in Self Esteem... I will try to be as unbiased as I can be during this write up. I believe through my experiences till now, till my or anyone's Enlightenment of Soul, I will always remain. With I, Ego will go hand in hand Whereas, Self Esteem is derived or attained after understanding of conduct of behaviour in relarionships, be it, Personal or Professional Ego can be dealt only and only with Proper Understanding , Self Introspec...