Self esteem and Self Ego...

 Dear all,

OMG !!! I did so much for all, but no one respects me? I can never be Wrong!! What Mistake have I done?! No one understands me?!

I am always right and wise !!! 

These are some common sentences we may be using routinely in our lives 😀

I, Me, Myself are words used for Self...

The topic today reminds me of a famous Bollywood dialogue:- Yeh Mera Abhimaan Nahi Swabhimaan hai ... (Translation : It's not about my Ego, but about my Self Esteem)

It's interesting that there is a very fine line between these two strong Emotions of Egoism and Being in Self Esteem...

I will try to be as unbiased as I can be during this write up.

I believe through my experiences till now, till my or anyone's Enlightenment of Soul, I will always remain. With I, Ego will go hand in hand

Whereas, Self Esteem is derived or attained after understanding of conduct of behaviour in relarionships, be it, Personal or Professional

Ego can be dealt only and only with Proper Understanding, Self Introspection and Evaluation with must Changes

Self Acceptance and Acceptance of Others' being also helps dealing with Ego, (वरना तो अपुन इच भगवान है। 😀😀)

In the wake of Ego Satisfaction, one may be rigid, non-communicative, stubborn, angry;

Whereas, being in self esteem, after guaging a situation, one intelligently, takes a way out to settle things and find a solution to the situation, than react.

In Self Esteem, one does not feel insulted or isolated, but remains in respect and Self - Satisfaction.

It is a beautiful experience to be in Actual Being, however, Ego and esteem, both disolves with death. What remains in the end, is your Purity in the form of Soul, a part of this Cosmos...