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Taking for Granted or Taken for Granted.. is it good???

Hello Friends,

I hope you all are doing great in your life and staying Safe & Healthy...

You must have definitely someday been taken for granted or you being taking yourself / other people for Granted...

What do you actually mean by 'taking / taken for Granted' ???

Every person is unique. 

Every Person has unique Personality

Every person has his / her own Plus n Minus in qualities 

Every person has Self worth / Self Esteem

Many persons are understanding and think of other's happiness, but sometimes compromise with own Self Esteem. So, either that person is taken for granted or we say the other person takes him for granted. That is, not bothered about other person's comfort, desires, expectations or worthiness.

Actually, till the existence of this body, Self Ego persists to some extent or larger extents. Hence according to me, Self ego / Esteem seems to be in Real, but is a big myth, till you are in this body. 

Every soul is void of self ego or esteem. The soul are same property wise. Its the being n worth that makes every person unique...

The debate of the topic Is it good to be taken for granted or take a person for granted???

So above statements shows, it is not so good to be taken for granted or to take someone for granted...!!! However, Let me put it other way...

* Know yourself better,

* All humans are different and unique in their own way, so respect everyone's individuality including yours.

* Each human being is born with and for a purpose. Be complementary to each and everyone than just a liability or burden,

* Accept each person as they are and if they aren't as one ought to be, so try to put the point across in a subtle way than just harp upon someone,

* Gratitude is the best gesture appreciated by you and others,

* Appreciate the other person's being and enjoy it than crib about the not happenejng attitude.

* If things do not work well between 2 persons, respect the disagreement too and part the ways for everyone's good.

* Never Compromise on the Happiness of others and you. But, definitely, wherever possible correct things not going right. A try and effort towards everyone's well-being will definitely be appreciated some day or the other.

* Person who is arrogant and adamant to not admit mistakes or try to change or work out things, its better to stay aside from that person for a while till he or she knows the mistake!!! 

* Constant introspection is require and evaluation of Self and others...

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