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Stereotype relationships exist and are they same in all millennium

 Hi all,

Husband - Wife, Mother - Son, Father - Daughter, Mom in laws - Daughter in law / Son - in-law, Grandparents - Grandchildren, Father - Child / Mother - Child are some of the relationships that we see. 

Tell me frankly, has some equations of above relationships changed over decades?! Like, we hear Bollywood dialogues or real life comments ---, Saas toh bahut danger hoti hai, Bahu toh Ghar mein aag lagaati hai, Maa kaa favorite child Beta hota hai, Daughters are always special to dads, Bahu kabhi beti nahi ban sakti, Shaadi ke baad pati-patni mein jhagde zyaada hote hai, Shaadi ke baadd power patni ke paas hi hota hai, etc etc...

Funny and you must be wondering am I mad to think about such topic in today's times...

Yes, I find a lot of stero typical approaches in various relationships. The mind set has to change... To larger extend the equations in the relationships of jnlaws - daughternin law / son jn law, father - daughter, husband - wife has changed for the better.

I believe sometimes an Incompleteness of desires, expectations in one's relationship with someone , makes him / her to extend those emotions if encountered in similar relationships jn thrir further life.

Otherwise, the basic instinct of a human is to be in happiness. Hiwever, in the wake of less self awareness, growing expectations from others than Self, makes a human either to avoid that relationship or else continue it with stereotype equations of arguments n fights or taunts or behaviour

Hope you guys could connect and be able to find content and beautiful experiences within their relationships with near and dear knes or any other human....!!!!

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