Correct Way of Living Life

 Hello Friends, Hope you had a great Vantine's day and enjoyed my previous blog on the same... The link to my previous post is  Https://thealternativeliving.blogspot.com/2021/02/hey-its-valentines-day-love-know-and.html The wonderful souls to make a miracle happen to another soul by giving birth in this beautiful world, are no doubt given the Place of God.... The souls named Parents here...♥️🙏🙏♥️ Imagine going through the wonderful experience of Parenthood, Raising a part of them to a full grown human, must be exciting, anxious, fearful, yet wonderful phase of Parents. A mere Smile, a Hug, a kind word, a first calling Dad, mom, paa, Maa, A first Crawl, A small step to a walk, a First run, A sharing, a sweet gesture fromtheir child /children must a Big Deal for parents. (While Writing this line, I am literally getting Goosebumps) We may say that parents needed a child of own flesh, a child for their Old age support or maybe since parents gave birth to child, whatever they do ...

 Hello Dearies, A very Happy Valentine's day to each one of you... Hope you and your loved ones are doing good and are being loved and giving love to others too!!!! Love is the blissful experience of the Truth. It is the fact, feeling, emotion and air to Life For whatever reason this Valentine's Day came into existence, I am happy to celebrate this more specially with my loved ones. Things I correlate Valentine's Day or Love are :- 💛 Gratitude towards the whole Cosmos, 💛 Gratitude to my Existence 💛 Feeling of pride and respect for my Parents, for their decision to bring me to this world to achieve my Completeness 💛 Immense love for my family to be able to accept my in their world and nurturing me to a good human being  💛 A silent prayer to include each and every particle in this space to be witnessing me and being my co-partners to my growth  💛 A Me-time to experience my own Self, Nature around and the intellect to explore the layers of knowledge within  💛 Enj...

Hello Friends, I hope you all are doing great in your life and staying Safe & Healthy... You must have definitely someday been taken for granted or you being taking yourself / other people for Granted... What do you actually mean by 'taking / taken for Granted' ??? Every person is unique.  Every Person has unique Personality Every person has his / her own Plus n Minus in qualities  Every person has Self worth / Self Esteem Many persons are understanding and think of other's happiness, but sometimes compromise with own Self Esteem. So, either that person is taken for granted or we say the other person takes him for granted. That is, not bothered about other person's comfort, desires, expectations or worthiness. Actually, till the existence of this body, Self Ego persists to some extent or larger extents . Hence according to me, Self ego / Esteem seems to be in Real, but is a big myth, till you are in this body.  Every soul is void of self ego or esteem. The soul are ...

 Hi all, Husband - Wife, Mother - Son, Father - Daughter, Mom in laws - Daughter in law / Son - in-law, Grandparents - Grandchildren, Father - Child / Mother - Child are some of the relationships that we see.  Tell me frankly, has some equations of above relationships changed over decades?! Like, we hear Bollywood dialogues or real life comments ---, Saas toh bahut danger hoti hai, Bahu toh Ghar mein aag lagaati hai, Maa kaa favorite child Beta hota hai, Daughters are always special to dads, Bahu kabhi beti nahi ban sakti, Shaadi ke baad pati-patni mein jhagde zyaada hote hai, Shaadi ke baadd power patni ke paas hi hota hai, etc etc... Funny and you must be wondering am I mad to think about such topic in today's times... Yes, I find a lot of stero typical approaches in various relationships. The mind set has to change... To larger extend the equations in the relationships of jnlaws - daughternin law / son jn law, father - daughter, husband - wife has changed for the better. I ...

 Dear all, OMG !!! I did so much for all, but no one respects me? I can never be Wrong!! What Mistake have I done?! No one understands me?! I am always right and wise !!!  These are some common sentences we may be using routinely in our lives 😀 I, Me, Myself are words used for Self... The topic today reminds me of a famous Bollywood dialogue:- Yeh Mera Abhimaan Nahi Swabhimaan hai ... (Translation : It's not about my Ego, but about my Self Esteem) It's interesting that there is a very fine line between these two strong Emotions of Egoism and Being in Self Esteem... I will try to be as unbiased as I can be during this write up. I believe through my experiences till now, till my or anyone's Enlightenment of Soul, I will always remain. With I, Ego will go hand in hand Whereas, Self Esteem is derived or attained after understanding of conduct of behaviour in relarionships, be it, Personal or Professional Ego can be dealt only and only with Proper Understanding , Self Introspec...

Dear all,  Silence is bliss.. Do you agree? No or Yes.  If Yes, find the following points justifying :- * Silence has no sound, so its soothing to ears, * Silence is good in stressful and fast-gushing life * Silence calms your nerves and mind * Imagine in nature, near mou tains, rivers, oceans, trees, landscape, we have noise all around, would you like Silence at such places? * Why people mostly today go for a runaway frkm busy lives, work to a vacation? To relax, to get a break from routine? * The fact is No one likes Noise, Work all round the clock. They definitely look for stress busters, Me-times, get-aways to Nature. Why??? * The basic instinct and nature of man is to remain calm and composed. This can be derived in Silence only!!! * Today, people opt for drugs, rave parties, high music pubs. That means they love noise and they are calm...well No!!! They fail to understand their basic instinct and want to run away from outside Noises of Rejections, Comparisons, Stress, Am...

 Hello Friends, We must have one or the other time have heard that The wise men said.... Now who are these Wise men, and makes them so special???  Also with being special, many of the other public feel, Would we ever achieve wisdom ? Wise is beyond our reach ? We belittle ourselves with the complex and myth and no proper understanding of Wise, Wisdom... Wisdom is a trait or propertyof the person who is wise. Wise person is the one who understands, is learned, has unleashed himself totally from within. Let me put the traits of being wise and then you yourself can decide that Being wise is Within or Beyond our Reach and Is it important for us to be wise??!!! 1. First, understand the fact, all humans have special traits. However, All Humans are inherently the same with respect to Soul and its Property of Completeness 2. So, wise or unwise are humans only. So we all can definitely become wise. 3. The fear factor of being wise is to be Responsible with thoughts, actions in all resp...