Correct Way of Living Life

Mummy, u keep on nagging me, I cannot tolerate it  Papa is always so strict and puts restrictions on me going out late nights or outstation, I cannot tolerate this One of my siblings is so irritating, and the other one is so brilliant than me, So I cannot tolerate them and the other one is just like me, I just like her. I cannot understand Maths, I do not like it and so cannot tolerate my Maths Teacher My sister in law is so interfering, I cannot tolerate her My in-laws ask so much and do not leave us alone, I cannot tolerate them My grandparents just do not understand us. There is a generation gap, I cannot tolerate them My husband always keeps his wet towel on the bed. He does not take me out. I just cannot tolerate his habits My wife is a big time spendthrift, I cannot tolerate her. And the list goes on… I hope many of you will relate to the above!!! Tolerance means to withstand. You can withstand heavy winds, sail in the ocean through wild winds, only if you know about why it h...

 Hi Friends, Your own Voice meaning your own inner voice of the soul .  Todays man of logical reasoning wont be able to believe or digest this -- Inner Voice.  Decluttering of mind :-  Our minds are so much cluttered that, we sometimes do not even know that such voice does exist !!! Why we can't hear our inner voice??? Our soul is enlightened and complete in literal sense.  However, due to irrelevant thoughts, unnecessary actions, words, unnatural behaviour and deeds, the voice of the Conscience gets subdued.  Question is Why to listen to one's voice ? The Best Guiding factor and mentor, whom you can talk, listen to, confide is your Self and the Voice shows you the Correct Picture only. You can not go wrong with those decisions and , if at all things dont work as planned, you never would have regrets about it. You would only and only be calm, rest assured by listening to your Voice. try it.... Practice Meditation or sit atleast 10 minutes daily with yourse...

Hi Friends, The whole world is grappling with the Pandemic outburst. We are finding solutions to eradicate the Virus.  The whole race is about Survival, whereas, the whole game should be about Existence and being Aware of that Existence in the Cosmos. The uncertainty or ignorance or no knowledge is exciting to be explored and feels like a jigsaw puzzle and, wait for the moment when we fully complete it.  In all this journey towards Completeness, wemay sometimes end up in depression of ling wait, anxiety of Uncertainty, Fear of the road ahead. Mankind, in race of development, unraveling the Unknown, has actually gone too far,and with Positives, done great harm to Nature, Planet and in turn putting the whole sustainable Living  in question.  In this Pandemic, it is must to sit back and review the mistakes committed than just blaming ine and another. Earth's atmosphere has been flourished with many micro - organisms like Amoeba, Algae, Bacterias,viruses.  So the ma...

Hello People, History of Mankind has seen Periodic changes in Thoughts, Ideas, Understanding, Lifestyle, Faith, Affinity towards Nature, etc. In all Periods, we have seen existence of Wise Men, Cruel Men, Ignorant Men, Naive Men. The categorisation happened due to Intellect, Awareness, Understanding and Pattern of thinking. I like to study the patterns & behaviours of humans or for that matter Existence of Every being in this Universe. With Likes, dislikes, I may sound unbiased or biased. I am trying to my best ability to analyse things and infer with full Reality. When we witness and learn about past Civilizations, we know Man then, was sound in Art, structures, and Nature Friendly. They used to adore the Five Elements of Nature, which a Human body is formed from. However, they did out of Superstitions. Over the period, the Intellect increased, but the Basic Understanding has somewhere decreased in terms of Self And Surrounding Awareness.  The thought process has grown in ter...

Hi friends, I am so mesmerized by the current phase I went through with 2 Corona Positive Relatives. One of them suffered from another dreadful disease, but Corona proved to be a boon to his disease. The reports had no clues of the disease he suffered since past one year. He was void of any disease or pain!!!  HIS SURRENDER to his Faith in Guru & Almighty, focussing on Soul than Body, made him unaware of the pain, Body may have been going through, and his Lifetime became a great Success Story....!!! This can be considered as an exceptional case of Corona Pandemic. However, more so important than the fear of virus or treatments done, what counted the way he lived his life. The behavioural aspect of this wonderful soul could bring out this Miracle !!!! His purity, integrity and immense faith on Self, His Guru, His Almighty re-instilled the faith of Goodness is Godliness...  In all, My biggest learning out of all this episode is that Live Life correctly and with Integrity, yo...

 Hello Friends, Hope you had a great Vantine's day and enjoyed my previous blog on the same... The link to my previous post is  Https://thealternativeliving.blogspot.com/2021/02/hey-its-valentines-day-love-know-and.html The wonderful souls to make a miracle happen to another soul by giving birth in this beautiful world, are no doubt given the Place of God.... The souls named Parents here...♥️🙏🙏♥️ Imagine going through the wonderful experience of Parenthood, Raising a part of them to a full grown human, must be exciting, anxious, fearful, yet wonderful phase of Parents. A mere Smile, a Hug, a kind word, a first calling Dad, mom, paa, Maa, A first Crawl, A small step to a walk, a First run, A sharing, a sweet gesture fromtheir child /children must a Big Deal for parents. (While Writing this line, I am literally getting Goosebumps) We may say that parents needed a child of own flesh, a child for their Old age support or maybe since parents gave birth to child, whatever they do ...

 Hello Dearies, A very Happy Valentine's day to each one of you... Hope you and your loved ones are doing good and are being loved and giving love to others too!!!! Love is the blissful experience of the Truth. It is the fact, feeling, emotion and air to Life For whatever reason this Valentine's Day came into existence, I am happy to celebrate this more specially with my loved ones. Things I correlate Valentine's Day or Love are :- 💛 Gratitude towards the whole Cosmos, 💛 Gratitude to my Existence 💛 Feeling of pride and respect for my Parents, for their decision to bring me to this world to achieve my Completeness 💛 Immense love for my family to be able to accept my in their world and nurturing me to a good human being  💛 A silent prayer to include each and every particle in this space to be witnessing me and being my co-partners to my growth  💛 A Me-time to experience my own Self, Nature around and the intellect to explore the layers of knowledge within  💛 Enj...

Hello Friends, I hope you all are doing great in your life and staying Safe & Healthy... You must have definitely someday been taken for granted or you being taking yourself / other people for Granted... What do you actually mean by 'taking / taken for Granted' ??? Every person is unique.  Every Person has unique Personality Every person has his / her own Plus n Minus in qualities  Every person has Self worth / Self Esteem Many persons are understanding and think of other's happiness, but sometimes compromise with own Self Esteem. So, either that person is taken for granted or we say the other person takes him for granted. That is, not bothered about other person's comfort, desires, expectations or worthiness. Actually, till the existence of this body, Self Ego persists to some extent or larger extents . Hence according to me, Self ego / Esteem seems to be in Real, but is a big myth, till you are in this body.  Every soul is void of self ego or esteem. The soul are ...

 Hi all, Husband - Wife, Mother - Son, Father - Daughter, Mom in laws - Daughter in law / Son - in-law, Grandparents - Grandchildren, Father - Child / Mother - Child are some of the relationships that we see.  Tell me frankly, has some equations of above relationships changed over decades?! Like, we hear Bollywood dialogues or real life comments ---, Saas toh bahut danger hoti hai, Bahu toh Ghar mein aag lagaati hai, Maa kaa favorite child Beta hota hai, Daughters are always special to dads, Bahu kabhi beti nahi ban sakti, Shaadi ke baad pati-patni mein jhagde zyaada hote hai, Shaadi ke baadd power patni ke paas hi hota hai, etc etc... Funny and you must be wondering am I mad to think about such topic in today's times... Yes, I find a lot of stero typical approaches in various relationships. The mind set has to change... To larger extend the equations in the relationships of jnlaws - daughternin law / son jn law, father - daughter, husband - wife has changed for the better. I ...

 Dear all, OMG !!! I did so much for all, but no one respects me? I can never be Wrong!! What Mistake have I done?! No one understands me?! I am always right and wise !!!  These are some common sentences we may be using routinely in our lives 😀 I, Me, Myself are words used for Self... The topic today reminds me of a famous Bollywood dialogue:- Yeh Mera Abhimaan Nahi Swabhimaan hai ... (Translation : It's not about my Ego, but about my Self Esteem) It's interesting that there is a very fine line between these two strong Emotions of Egoism and Being in Self Esteem... I will try to be as unbiased as I can be during this write up. I believe through my experiences till now, till my or anyone's Enlightenment of Soul, I will always remain. With I, Ego will go hand in hand Whereas, Self Esteem is derived or attained after understanding of conduct of behaviour in relarionships, be it, Personal or Professional Ego can be dealt only and only with Proper Understanding , Self Introspec...

Dear all,  Silence is bliss.. Do you agree? No or Yes.  If Yes, find the following points justifying :- * Silence has no sound, so its soothing to ears, * Silence is good in stressful and fast-gushing life * Silence calms your nerves and mind * Imagine in nature, near mou tains, rivers, oceans, trees, landscape, we have noise all around, would you like Silence at such places? * Why people mostly today go for a runaway frkm busy lives, work to a vacation? To relax, to get a break from routine? * The fact is No one likes Noise, Work all round the clock. They definitely look for stress busters, Me-times, get-aways to Nature. Why??? * The basic instinct and nature of man is to remain calm and composed. This can be derived in Silence only!!! * Today, people opt for drugs, rave parties, high music pubs. That means they love noise and they are calm...well No!!! They fail to understand their basic instinct and want to run away from outside Noises of Rejections, Comparisons, Stress, Am...

 Hello Friends, We must have one or the other time have heard that The wise men said.... Now who are these Wise men, and makes them so special???  Also with being special, many of the other public feel, Would we ever achieve wisdom ? Wise is beyond our reach ? We belittle ourselves with the complex and myth and no proper understanding of Wise, Wisdom... Wisdom is a trait or propertyof the person who is wise. Wise person is the one who understands, is learned, has unleashed himself totally from within. Let me put the traits of being wise and then you yourself can decide that Being wise is Within or Beyond our Reach and Is it important for us to be wise??!!! 1. First, understand the fact, all humans have special traits. However, All Humans are inherently the same with respect to Soul and its Property of Completeness 2. So, wise or unwise are humans only. So we all can definitely become wise. 3. The fear factor of being wise is to be Responsible with thoughts, actions in all resp...

 Hello, We all in school have learnt in Civics and Science that Human is a Social Animal...  Yes, Neelam, we all have heard that.... Now what new in it??!!! Well - Well, I would like to highlight 3 words : Human, Social and Animal.... Human is one of the  top and Complete in the 4 Orders in Nature's Pyramid of Creation of Living & Non-Living things (Matter --- Elements, Metals, Stones, Precious stones, etc, Vegetation / Air ---Plants, Animal Order - All types of Herbivores, Carnivores, Mammals, etc and Last The Intellect - Humans) Find below an image in Hindi showing 4 Orders in Nature, when in sync & harmony have no issues, though,humans equation with all orders have caused issues... http://madhyasth-darshan.info/z-miscellaneous/3-char-avastha-jeevan-vidya-madhyasth-darshan/ The link to this image... Now, as per Science, definitely we humans have our history from Monkeys. However, in the above picture, It clearly shows, we are the Highest in Nature's Order with r...

  Hi all, We are nearing Christmas 🎄🧑‍🎄 Its Time for Celebrations, Gifts, Carols, Gifts, Resolutions, etc ... The history of Resolution started with Christian people offering A promise to their Gods on the New Year's Eve, as simply put like a Return Gift to God.... This Tradition of Resolution making has now, in the whole world, taken its trend to keeping a Promise for Self Change. Just Imagine, if we have even one Reason to make a Resolution for Self Betterment, it totally implies, there is a Genuine Need of  positive Correction in Self...!!! Making and breaking happens, when we take Resolution as A Promise made. Promise, actually can be kept to be broken, since we deal them with respect to us, taking Ourselves as only Physical Human Body.... Don't you agree, that we are Precious Creation of nature, not limited to Body factors, but Intellect and Understanding of A thing called Soul, which we actually are..😁😄 So, if you think, you are Leading a Great, Happy Human life, th...

Hi all, I am happy when I go out with friends, I am happy when people come home, Mom is happy when she feeds her children and family full, Dad is happy when is, able to fulfill needs of Family, Children are happy when they get chocolates, We are happy when we go for outings every vacation, We are happy when we have no one visiting our place, I am happy when I get Peaceful sleep, and so on..... The list for happiness is long and it seems that Happiness is different to one and all... Life is simple so should be Happiness 🙂 But the wise men took many births, resorted to so many practices to find Happiness!!! 🙈🙆😮 What is the happiness they spent their lives for, and what is Happiness we find in the above sentences??!!! We saw in the above circumstances that  * Happiness is state of mind * Happiness differs as per situation and moods.   * Happiness is short lived. * Happiness is never same for everyone. * You cannot be happy all time. * Happiness changes according to Age. ...

The world says We Should be Individualistic but yet remain like a Big whole family on this Planet Earth... However, the wise men have said that world is Indeed a Big Whole Family, but the journey of soul should be Self-driven. Both the theories seem to be telling the same, but the first one has vested or selfish or self-centred interests, whereas the latter, projects a Human-centric and Self-motivated, Self-Instrospective Journey of Life. The so-called Family today are just blood relations or made by law. I even see some 60 -80 plus aged sibblings, have changed with times. The values taught by their parents or our ancestors, are respected for the world to know. Where is not just this generation, but all generations heading to. Terming this as 'Kalyug', is taken as being destined to a bad phase of generation living present and to come... The overall mindset or thought process is seen to be manipulated very dramatically by the so called Artificial Intelligence or some few Grred m...

It is important to have always a Reality Check on Self, Others, Situations, Traits, Work... What actually is This Reality Check or Ground Reality??? Well, Simply Put, It's is That which is Ought to be in its true and Pure form... 1. One's Actual Being or Truth of Existence 2. The thing with natural property that is inherent Specifics 3. The Pros & cons are always 2 sides of coin, but Truth or Reality is the Exact thing present with accordance of Nature 4. The exact evaluation with respect to a thing, person's quality and benefits than over or under Evaluation of that thing or person The best part is only the Highest in Order of Pyramid of living & non-living things is Developed brain of Human, which has the capacity to see, understand, learn, analyse and be able to this reality check, so as to realise the importance and benefits of each and everything related to not only Planet Earth, but the Whole Cosmos..... Ignorance, Ego and Knowledge yet to be unfolded, are bas...

Hello Friends, In the early months of Pandemic, the fearful and worried Industrialists, Chartered Accountants, Realtors, stalwarts of different businesses kept Online discussions of their Views on Current situation and Future of economy... Most of them said, it's was a great time especially for India to hit the Reset button... I have also mentioned this concept in many of my posts and Blogs. Today, I was pondering, before every new beginning, there must have been a requirement for Mankind, Civilisations to hit a Reset Button at that point of time. However, I feel, this Pandemic has urged to hit Reset button from all corners.   Be it Nature, be it Mankind, be it business, be it Lifestyle, be it Wildlife, be it Climate, or everything and anything... In Short, I take this indication of Reset Button as an end of something or some era and a new beginning.   However, if one does not abide by this Rule of Reset button, there could be a possibility of current Civilisation ...

Hello Friends, It is a pleasure to have like-minded people in this Journey of Living, Learning, Reading and Writing The beauty of a Human is --  No  One is all Bad, or All good. Everyone are carriers of Truth, Goodness. The difference just being, their Acceptance and Realisation of this Fact Shri A. Nagraj ji (Fondly Addressed as Babaji) has blessed many souls with his Experience of Universality, Being and Importance of Co-xistenialism.  One of his Sutras is - Ek Mein Sahi Aur Anek mein Galat It means Universal Truth is one. Else, is Illusion or Wrong in Understanding and Actions. There is Oneness in Truth & Universality, whereas, People are divided in Anything other than Truth Pros & Cons to Behavioural Aspects :- * Difference of Acceptance & Defiance There is always acceptance of Truth by all, but defiance of False by Soul (Be it Terrorist or any anti-social element or any human being). Defiance is Due to Ego or Ignorance or Lack of Understa...

Hello Friends, Recently, I Saw A Vlog on Mostly Sane YouTube Channel - A candid Conversation with Famous Rapper Singer - Badhshah. One of the thing that caught my ears, was this Phrase - 'Struggle word brings in negativism'. He said that there is nothing called Struggle. It is all about a journey. Adversities make us Wise, if we have that kind of inner strength and consciousness left. Likewise, Success should be handled properly to keep us Sane... I agree to this wonderful thing shared by Badshah. Everyone is an amateur first. He or she clicks at One Go or may take its gestation period to gain steady work, in whatever field. Thus, it is being sympathetic by terming that phase of settle as Struggle Period. It gives a positive vibe, when we describe this initial phase as a part of our journey. Life is not of silver spoons to all. Every one has their share of Successes and Failure.  The main part is How one accepts that passing phase of Life as. The challenges are a te...